SPOILERS: Unpacking Netflix's "Adolescence" From a Peaceful Parenting Perspective With Sarah Rosensweet

Why are we scapegoating the symptom of social media when oppressive systems are the root cause of a disconnected generation?

As an artist obsessed with breaking generational cycles (while raising a budding filmmaker) the series had me riveted from the opening shot.

That’s why I was giddy when Sarah Rosensweet⁠ of Peaceful Parenting agreed to go live with me to talk about “Adolescence.” The insights that it raised for us both go far beyond hysteria about social media. Despite the sensational aspects of the story, the experiences depicted highlight real issues in raising and connecting with teenagers.

Sarah shared why it’s crucial to engage with teens even when they seem distant and how boosting their sense of self-worth can be super protective.

"What our kids need most from us is to feel lovable and worthy. Even if they're artists instead of jocks."

-Sarah Rosensweet⁠

Raising Reflective Rebels

In our conversation, radical parenting felt to both of us like a glimmer of hope. This approach, influenced by Alfie Kohn, focuses on nurturing reflective rebels:

“Raising kids who won't be quiet if something's not fair, and will stand up and say something when someone's being bullied. This kind of parenting… starts at home, allowing your child to question you and talk back to you. And this is their practice for going out in the world and standing up for what's right.”

-⁠Sarah Rosensweet⁠

"Adolescence" serves as a powerful reflection on family dynamics and systems that perpetuate violence.

Cycle-breaking and mindful parenting are the most radical things we can do right now to protect our kids from those systems.

Through connection, acceptance, and supporting our children's uniqueness, we can navigate the complexities of modern parenting with hope and intention.